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The Two Selves

The Two Selves

We are influenced by two selves:

The Experiencing Self: Lives in the moment and focuses on real-time happiness.

The Remembering Self: Reflects on past events and shapes decisions based on peak moments and conclusions (the Peak-End Rule).

Balancing these selves is crucial for rational decision-making and long-term happiness.

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Decision-making is a crucial part of our daily lives. Whether it's about personal choices or professional strategies, striking the right balance between intuitive and analytical thinking can significantly impact the outcomes. Understanding cognitive biases, emotions, and long-term implications helps us make informed and rational decisions.

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